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Jeremy (or anyone else lol),
What would you do if you have friends that do not like your "best" friend. And then they get kinda mad at you cause your hanging out with him/her. And they keep asking: Why do you like him/her? I'm in the middle of both of them and they are pulling me on one side while the other one is pulling on the other side.
If this person is a good
If this person is a good friend who respects you, they should be able to respect your point of view and your other friendships. They may have a problem with another person but YOUR relationship shouldnt be their concern. If it were me I would sit down and tell them how much I respected them and that I don't like how I'm being treated, being pulled in opposite directions and being [unfairly] pressured to choose. And also that I like them both and want to be friends with both of them. That doesnt mean the three of you have to be together, you can have seperate 'hang out times'. Anywho, hope that helps a little. I'll pray over it for you.
-worship isn't a song. it's a way of life
This should be "What Would Brittani Do?"
Actually, I would have to agree totally. I would add one thing though. I think it's odd that friends get possessive of other friends. It's like you are allowing someone to "own" you when you allow this "person" to do what they are doing to you -- making you choose between them and another "best" friend. I would measure it like this: Which friend is forcing you to choose? In I Corinthians 13, Paul says that love doesn't force us to do ANYTHING. So, if you are feeling pressured to do something by these so called "friends" of yours, maybe it's time to find some new friends. AND...if I am correct about who this "best" friend is that those other "friends" are pressuring you to not hang out with, then I'd say that if they are forcing you to choose, then you should stick wiith the "best" friend and give those other "friends" a "so long, see ya later" kick in the pants.
ha probably not.. i like
ha probably not.. i like your input bunches though because you have more biblical input than i do.. im still in the learning process
-worship isn't a song. it's a way of life